Cyber peadophilia

Cyber pedophilia

A cyber pedophile is a person who engages in sexual activity with a child/children as part of online act or fantasy.

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It is estimated that more than half a million pedophiles are online every day. Before the internet, pedophiles had to go where children are, for example a zoo, playground or amusement park. The virtual world today makes it alarmingly simple for pedophiles to make contact and track children.

 There are two types of pedophiles on the internet:

1. Those who seek face-to-face meetings
2. Those who are content to collect & trade child pornography.

Fast facts on cyber predators:

  1. 8 million children go missing every year.
  2. Child pornography has become a $3 billion annual industry.
  3. More than 20,000 images of child pornography are posted on the Internet every week.
  4. Demand for pornographic images of babies and toddlers on the Internet is soaring.
  5. Approximately 20 new children appear on the porn sites every month – many kidnapped or sold into sex.
  6. The U.S. Customs Service estimates that there are more than 100,000 Web sites offering child pornography – which is illegal worldwide.
  7. 40% of people charged with child pornography also sexually abuse children.
  8. One in five children who use computer chat rooms has been approached over the Internet by pedophiles.
  9. 13 million youth use Instant Messaging: 1 in 5 received sexual solicitation or approach in last year / 1 in 33 received AGGRESSIVE sexual solicitation
  10. 25% of youth who received sexual solicitation told a parent.
  11. A child in human trafficking will be raped more than 6000 times.
  12. Pornographers disguise their sites (i.e. “stealth” sites) with common brand names, including Disney, Barbie, ESPN, etc., to entrap children.

Online mistakes pedophiles love:

 

  • Not selecting the privacy settings on your social media – e.g. Facebook.
  • Posting of sexually provocative pics of yourself online.
  • Posting pictures publicly.
  • Posting personal information about yourself online – e.g your names , school, sports team, ‘’checking-in”, town , cell number, favorite music, TV programs, a birthday party invitation.
  • Accepting friend requests from someone you have never met.
  • Visiting chat rooms & interacting with online strangers.
  • Playing online games against people you don’t know.
  • Placing strangers on buddy lists.
  • Sending personal information to strangers.
  • Visiting X-rated sites.
  • Talking about sex with strangers.

 Child grooming

Child grooming comprises actions deliberately undertaken with the aim of befriending and establishing an emotional connection with a child, to lower the child’s inhibitions in order to sexually abuse the child. Online grooming is when an adult makes online or phone contact with someone under the age of 16 with the intention of establishing a sexual relationship. This is a criminal offence and occurs in the communication, so you never have to meet this person face to face for them to be investigated and charged.
Child grooming may be used to lure minors into trafficking of children, child prostitution or the production of child pornography.

Groomers Use Tricks.

Grooming is a subtle (hard to notice), gradual (slow), and escalating (more and worse over time) process of building “trust” with a kid and often the kid’s parent or other caretaker. Grooming tricks include:

  • Fake Trustworthiness – pretending to be the kid’s friend in order to gain their trust
  • Testing Boundaries – jokes, roughhousing, back rubs, tickling, or sexualized games (pants-ing, truth or dare, strip games, etc.)
  • Touch – from regular, mostly comfortable non-sexual touch to “accidental” touch of private parts, often over time
  • Intimidation – using fear, embarrassment, or guilt to keep a kid from telling
  • Sharing sexual material – capitalizing on a kid’s natural curiosity to normalize sexual behavior by showing pictures, videos, text messages, photos, websites, notes, etc. of a sexual nature
  • Breaking Rules – encouraging a kid to break rules, which establishes secret-keeping as part of the relationship and can be used as blackmail in the future
  • Drugs and Alcohol – breaking the rules (see above) and/or making kids less able to stop the abuse because they’re under the influence of the substance
  • Communicating Secretly – texting, emailing, or calling in an unexpected way (parents don’t know about it, it happens a lot, the kid is told to keep it a secret)
  • Blaming and Confusing – making the kid feel responsible for the abuse or what could happen to the kid, his/her family, or the abuser if the kid tells.

Get help

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How to protect yourself against online predators like peadophiles:

1. Never give out any personal information such as your address or phone number
2. Don’t send pictures of yourself to anyone, especially indecent pictures.
3. Don’t open emails or attachments from people you don’t know.
4. Don’t become friends with people you don’t know.
5. Never arrange to meet someone in person who you’ve met online.
6. If anything you read or see online worries you, tell someone.7. Remember  – it is not a shame if you only have a few online friends, as long as you know them all personally. It is better to have real life friends to socialize with.8. Never start a relationship online with someone you have never met.

Most young people start their social media pages at a younger age,  for example the age of 10 – 12 years. A person with a short 1 to 2 year old profile who says he is 18 yrs old, just might be a much older man  (peadophile) who has just created a new profile to entice you.

 

Counseling 

If you have been a victim of a cyber pedophile, or you suspect a cyber predator might be tracking you – you may text-chat anonymously to MOBIEG  LIVE CHAT for help. Don’t just ignore it – it might save your life.

Counselors are online Sundays: 18h00 – 20h30 / Mondays – Thursdays: 19h00-21h30

Quiz

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