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Learned helplessness

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By MobieG on April 12, 2022 Personal Issues

What is learned helplessness?

Definition: a condition in which a person suffers from a sense of powerlessness from a traumatic event or persistent failure to succeed.

Uncontrollable adverse events that occur frequently or continuously in people or animals cause them to believe they are helpless to control essential outcomes in their lives.

It causes them to lose motivation to control or manage situations. Instead, they become conditioned to believe that a dangerous position is unchangeable or inescapable.

It’s not an innate trait. No one is born believing they have no control over what happens to them. Ít is learned behaviour. Helplessness can lead to a state of depression.


What are the key symptoms of learned helplessness?

  • Low motivation (low self-esteem, failure)
  • Passivity (give up trying, no belief in self)
  • Indecisiveness (struggle to make choices)

Examples of learned helplessness

1.       A woman in an abusive relationship believes the beatings will never stop and gives up trying to ask for help or get out, even when support is available. (See example below.)

2.       A child who struggles to perform well in school gives up trying to improve.

3.       An older person who loses independence or mobility gives up on minor things they could still do.

4.       An overweight person gives up trying to lose weight after failed attempts.


How victims of domestic violence develop learned helplessness:

Self-help

What can you do to counter learned helplessness?

  1. Know that you learned to become helpless – therefore, you can unlearn it.
  2. Understand what caused you to become helpless- was it a traumatic event, frequent adverse events, or toxic parents?
  3. Become aware of how you explain things that happen to you every day. Are your explanations optimistic or pessimistic?
  4. Discover your self-worth: treasure and embrace that.
  5. Write positive self-talk for yourself to read daily. [Write a Self-talk]
  6. Practice being independent – learn to deal with stuff on your own.
  7. Practice making choices. Start small, and set S.M.A.R.T. goals (must be specific, measurable, achievable, realistic, and timely). Be consistent and stick to what you decide. [How to set SMART goals]
  8. Practice mindfulness – focus on living in the present.
  9. Celebrate your successes.
  10. The most common treatment is therapy, especially cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT). CBT helps people overcome these challenges by changing how they think and act. Albert Ellis developed the ABC method to help you change your thoughts. [Change your thinking worksheet]

Resources: 

Learned Helplessness: Seligman’s Theory of Depression (+ Cure). https://positivepsychology.com/learned-helplessness-seligman-theory-depression-cure/


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